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Before you reach this point, you have to say stop and draw your limit
Narcissistic people are like viruses. If you live with long-term narcissists, you start to get sick both psychologically and physiologically. Narcissistic people don't seem to do much harm at the beginning of the relationship, but they gradually and unnoticed destroy the person.
If I stick a needle in your arm, you'll first make a small stinging sound. Afterwards, if I said to you, "Oh, I was kidding". You don't care too much about that needle I pricked. You might think, "A little needle won't do anything". The next day I pricked that needle again and normalized the situation by pretending to be joking or right. I saw that you do not make a sound, I continued to prick needles every day. In this way, I was able to control you by weakening you. You have no limits of your own, I set it. What happens if I keep sticking needles at you for a long time? That arm turns purple and collects blood. You can't say, what would a tiny needle be? Now your voice starts to come out. Because now your arm is starting to rot. This situation scares you.
Such is life with narcissistic people. You don't raise your voice at first. You say, "Oh, he's joking, I think there's something wrong with me, so don't let him get upset" and pass it off. But when you are exposed to too many such poisons, you start to rot psychologically and physiologically. Until there are visible negative consequences.
You need to understand beforehand the person who pricked you so that you don't let them do you any more harm. It is your responsibility to take precautions before it rots. Narcissists normalize all their bad behavior and get used to you day by day. Before you reach this point, you have to say stop and draw your limit.
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